“Find out who you are, and do it on purpose.” -Dolly Parton
As an educator and coach, my work has centered around one key question: how can each of us fully embody our own power?
I coach people to help them find the relationships they desire, the work that brings them joy, and the perspective changes that can help transform their life. Using a blend of traditional coaching, narrative coaching, and mentoring, I’ve been able to hold space for my clients as they imagine their ideal lives, and support them in their movement towards their goals.
I have taught thousands of people throughout the US, Canada, and overseas for the past 20 years; I’ve also written hundreds of articles, essays, advice columns, book chapters, and blog posts on topics ranging from sexuality & pleasure to mental wellness, personal growth, aging, and trauma recovery. My class topics range from basic sex-positive sexuality & pleasure education through alternative sexuality & relationships styles (including BDSM, kink, and polyamory), body and gender positivity, and activism (you can get a peek at my schedule here). I believe strongly that the more that we know, accept, and love ourselves, the more we’re able to advocate for the empowered relationships and erotic intimacy that we dream of. And as a co-host and curator of the #openEd workshop series, I’ve gotten to both teach – and learn from – some of the most amazing sexuality educators & thought leaders on the continent!
I’ve provided expert advice to writers from Cosmopolitan, Shape, Healthline, and more! My writing has been featured in magazines (including a bi-monthly column in StorErotica, an adult industry retail magazine) as well as online in places like PopSugar. I’ve also had my writing included in Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play, and the Erotic Edge, edited by Tristan Taormino, as well as Lee Harrington’s book, Rope, Bondage and Power.